Moving forward after a relationship breaks down

Many of the psychic readings that we provide here at Psychic Waters cover the area of love and relationships and it is a topic that we all discuss right through our lives – it is integral to our happiness and wellbeing.  We all yearn to meet the “right one”, the one we have been waiting for, our soul mate and the person we can share the rest of our lives with. Together our strength as one becomes infinite and the world a more loving and less scary place.

Many of us however may find ourselves stuck in a relationship that we know is destructive, unloving and ultimately not where we want to be. We are unable to shine as our true selves and find our lives become one long road of compromise. So with true courage we finish the relationship – but what is next ?  Moving on from a relationship can be the hardest thing to do. What do I do now? Have I done the right thing? Will I find love again? Here are some pointers to help you make the next few steps on your jouney.

Don’t be too hard on yourself.

Firstly, try to accept the way you are feeling. Do not keep feeling guilty about it as if you are in the wrong. You are not!  You have moved on for a reason.Accept it so that you can move forward through the difficult times to reach a place where you are happier.

Take time to evaluate.

Don’t rush into hasty decisions. Take time to look at where you are and where you would like to be. Set yourself goals to help you get there and stick to them. Sometimes we can react too hastily when we are under pressure and emotional – we must learn to take our time, walk away from conflict and truly evaluate what we want.

Be true to yourself.

You know who you are deep down, but often we find ourselves hiding behind a protective outer shell. We don’t let others in. Now is the time to start peeling back the layers to set free your true self. Don’t be afraid to scream and shout, laugh and cry, run and walk and dance like crazy. If you want to do it, do it! – who is stopping you?

Reach out for help

Don’t be afraid to lean on others for support.  It can be our pride and fear that holds us back from reaching out our hands for help. Don’t feel ashamed. Don’t feel scared of the emotions that may be released. They need to come out, so reach out your hand and let the healing begin.


All of our psychic readers have hours and hours of experience talking to people just like yourself about the love and relationships in their lives. We will all suffer hardships along the way and will need a helping hand to give us the strength to move forward at times. Our psychics are all empathetic to the situations presented to them. Our psychics can be contacted by telephone or text at any time of day or night. Visit “Our Psychics”page for all their details and the telephone contact details you will need.

Love is Light x





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